Let My Carrie Go



The way I feel right now can best be described with this scene from Ferris Bueller:






I have long periods of the day where I am not very mobile or functioning. My parents came to visit (yay!!) and they got to experience first hand what New York life is like, plus my failing body and how much time I spend laying down. 

One of the hardest parts is trying to figure out food. Keeping in mind we have one extremely difficult grocery store, a few corner markets with inflated prices, no dishwasher, one sink, two kids, one husband who is gone practically all the time and one of me who is too sick/tired/nauseous to even think about food. So trying to get us fed in a way that is affordable, moderately healthy, easy to prepare and easy to cleanup is proving to be very tough to solve. 

Also, blogger is acting up right now so I have to cut out early. Blah!

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